Quotes About Anger

35 quotes

Aristotle set the standard high: anyone can get angry, but to do it to the right person, to the right extent, at the right time and in the right way is not for everyone. Confucius listed not yielding to anger among three steps that bring a person near the gods. The Dalai Lama asked plainly whether anger is useful, and answered that its result is good neither for you nor for the other person.

Petrarch counted anger among five enemies of peace, along with avarice, ambition, envy and pride. Stephen Hawking gave a practical warning: people won't have time for you if you are always angry or complaining. Mark Twain offered a counting method, to count four when angry and to swear when very angry. Ernest Hemingway described anger leaving the way water does, washed away in the river along with any obligation. Charles Dickens gave one character the vow that angry thoughts and reproaches would never bear witness against someone, though sorrow might.
English novelist and social critic

My sorrow may bear involuntary witness against you at the judgement Throne; but my angry thoughts or my reproaches never will, I know!

— David Copperfield

American author and journalist

Anger was washed away in the river along with any obligation.

— A Farewell to Arms

Iranian poet

You erased my famine, unpicked my anger / Your energy charges my voice, it radiates my heart; Now I am alive with the ore of words pouring / From my lips like molten lava glittering with joy.

— Words of Paradise: Selected Poems

Colombian writer and Nobel laureate

She was impressed by its simplicity and its seriousness, and the rage she had cultivated with so much love for so many days faded away on the spot.

— Love in the Time of Cholera

Indian philosopher and the founder of Buddhism

Conquer the angry one by not getting angry; conquer the wicked by goodness; conquer the stingy by generosity, and the liar by speaking the truth.

— The Dhammapada

Albanian-Indian Catholic nun and missionary

Am I ever angry or frustrated? I only feel angry sometimes when I see waste, when things that we waste are what people need, things that would save them from dying. Frustrated? No, never.

— The Joy in Loving: A Guide to Daily Living

Roman lyric poet (65 BC – 8 BC)

Ira furor brevis est: animum rege: qui nisi paret imperat.(Anger is a brief madness: govern your mind [temper], for unless it obeys it commands.)

— The Odes of Horace

English writer

one of those pertinacious tempers that would warm every day to a white heat and never again cool to forgiveness.

— The Island of Dr. Moreau

16th Roman Emperor from 161 to 180 and Stoic philosopher

How much more grievous are the consequences of anger than the causes of it.

— Meditations

American writer and biochemist

Even at the time, [he] felt his anger to be out of proportion to the cause, but it represented an accumulation of resentment.

— The Stars, Like Dust

French novelist, journalist, playwright, and poet

Her anger was rekindled.'You see, I keep it to myself, but, oh! it's more than I can stand. Don't say anything, sir; don't say anything, or I'll explode!'He said nothing, and she exploded all the same.

— Pot Luck

French playwright and actor

If perchance a friend should betray you; if he forms a subtle plot to get hold of what is yours; if people should try to spread evil reports about you, would you tamely submit to all this without flying into a rage?

— The Misanthrope

French novelist, critic and essayist

The best vaccine against anger is to watch others in its throes.

Founding Father, U.S. president from 1801 to 1809

When angry, count ten before you speak; if very angry, an hundred.

Indian independence activist

The only difference between man and man all the world over is one of degree, and not of kind, even as there is between trees of the same species. Where in is the cause for anger, envy or discrimination?

4th-century BCE Greek philosopher

There are two things a person should never be angry at, what they can help, and what they cannot.

Greek philosopher

Anyone can get angry, but to do this to the right person, to the right extent, at the right time, with the right motive, and in the right way, that is not for everyone, nor is it easy.

Italian scholar and poet

Five enemies of peace inhabit with us - avarice, ambition, envy, anger, and pride; if these were to be banished, we should infallibly enjoy perpetual peace.

American Baptist minister and civil rights leader

Darkness cannot drive out darkness: only light can do that. Hate cannot drive out hate: only love can do that.

— A Testament of Hope: The Essential Writings and Speeches