The ethos of redemption is realied in self-mastery, by means of temperance, that is, continence of desires.
— Blessed Are the Pure of Heart: Catechesis on the Sermon on the Mount and Writings of St. Paul
...if desire is predominant it can deform love between man and woman and rob them both of it.
Karol Wojtyła, later Pope John Paul II, wrote this in Love and Responsibility, published in 1960 while he was a bishop in Kraków. He describes love between man and woman as a longing for the whole person rather than mere sensual desire, and warns that when desire takes over, it can distort that love and rob both people of it.
Source: Love and Responsibility (1960), Chapter 2
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The ethos of redemption is realied in self-mastery, by means of temperance, that is, continence of desires.
— Blessed Are the Pure of Heart: Catechesis on the Sermon on the Mount and Writings of St. Paul
Love consists of a commitment which limits one's freedom - it is a giving of the self, and to give oneself means just that: to limit one's freedom on behalf of another.
— Love and Responsibility
A person's rightful due is to be treated as an object of love, not as an object for use.
— Love and Responsibility
Friendship, as has been said, consists in a full commitment of the will to another person with a view to that person's good.
— Love and Responsibility
Love between man and woman cannot be built without sacrifices and self-denial.
— Love and Responsibility
Limitation of one's freedom might seem to be something negative and unpleasant, but love makes it a positive, joyful and creative thing. Freedom exists for the sake of love.
— Love and Responsibility